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To worship her man for feel more love

To worship her man for feel more love.
For a woman to fully love, to feel devotion to..., yes, - to worship her man. It allows her to choose to open her heart and to love without restraint. It is not a position of weakness and defeat, but an assertion of her huge power to love.

My life and marriage.
We had both withheld love, and had it withheld from us too. We had both used people, and been used. So when we first got closer, we made a conscious decision to try something new, as a conscious experiment. Early on, we soon recognized that we each have many different dimensions. On the surface is the personality, almost entirely conditioned by family and society. It can be mean, it can be vengeful, selfish and cold; it will use others for its own grasping for significance. People sometimes call that dimension the "ego." As far as I can see, we all have that dimension, however spiritual or not we may think ourselves to be. We are not suggesting that you direct worship to that dimension of each other. In exhaustion and frustration with the smallness of the personality, many people lately have discovered meditation, or some portal into a dimension that is peaceful and spacious and unconditionally loving. We generally only glimpse that dimension in snapshots. Most people we know, including ourselves when we first started to experiment, feel a profound and painful schism between the spaciousness and peace of meditation and the often rocky road of personal relationship. Our marriage has been devoted to bridge that schism through conscious practice, and what I have called the intention of worship is just one aspect of that. We do not direct worship at the conditioned habits of the personality. We play with them and make humor from them. We direct our worship to the deeper dimension in each other, which is not conditioned or wounded or separate at all. And conscious worship calls forth that hidden dimension, it brings it to life and invites it to dance. We have learned to be both honest and also humorous with the conditioned habits of the personality. They cannot be made to go away, but it is possible to look deeper into your partner to the dimension of pure and undiluted yum.

We worship each other. This happens both as an atmosphere of appreciation and leaning into greater depth, but it can also become a conscious ritual. Each morning we bow to each other, intentionally, and start a new day where we commit ourselves fresh to a deeper dimension of love.

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Lifestyle - god and goddess

Bible, God says:
- "I declare: "Gods though you be, offspring of the Most High all of you" (Psalms 82,6)
- Jesus answered them, "Is it not written in your law, 'I said, "You are gods"'? (John 10,34)

Lifestyle - god and goddess, idea and vision:

Let the man worship woman as earthly goddess, beautiful divine, the Queen, the Nymph, the Mana, the food of Life, beautiful earthly goddess...

And let the woman worship man as earthly god, the Lord, the Sun, the Father, the King, the Lite of Her Life, the creator, the provider, as Jesus ...

Surrender to one another. Become one. The glorious Mystic rose in the garden of the Heavenly Father. Permeate the universe, fill it, become it for this is the union beyond duality.

But this lifestyle is not for everyone.