"I am a submissive male and I have a question: If a woman rules over man - is this correct? Woman supremacy, female led marriage or femdom? Is it okay?"
- I do not know. Bible - 1Corint 10, 23: "'Everything is permissible'; maybe so, but not everything does good. True, everything is permissible, but not everything builds people up."
Only my view: Everything is permissible, yes, but probably this is not very good, not ideal. Sorry. "Woman supremacy" - in marriage maybe okay only as game.
Probably no ideal as lifestyle. My opinion. Sorry.
= Plus - Bible recommendation: women should be subordinate to their husbands.
= And plus - Catholic Church recommendation: (I am a Christian - Catholic)
Casti Connubii, by Pope Pius XI. : Domestic society being confirmed, therefore, by this bond of love, there should flourish in it that "order of love," as St. Augustine calls it.
This order includes both the primacy of the
husband with regard to the wife and children, the ready subjection of the wife and her willing obedience, which the Apostle commends in these words:
"Let women be subject to their husbands as to the Lord, because the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ is the head of the Church."
Arcanum divinae, by Pope Leo XIII. : The husband is the chief of the family and the head of the wife. The woman, because she is flesh of his flesh, and bone of his bone,
must be subject to her husband and obey him; not, indeed, as a servant, but as a companion, so that her obedience shall be
wanting in neither honor nor dignity.
But Pope John Paul II. offered also other an alternative: "Mutual subordination" (his letter Mulieris Dignitatem).
Therefore I recommend choose from:
1, - Traditional recommendation for marriage (woman is subordinate to man).
2, - Or other recommendation - marriage of man and woman in mutual subordination.
You - try to talking with your wife and together to find a good compromise for you.
One lady wrote:
You are Christian-Catholic and woman admirer. But Catholic Church and Christians always (especially in the Middle Ages) seeks to persecute women. Is it true?
- We in the past persecute evil women. Naturally, always exist a miscarriage of justice and evil person in the judiciary. But our timeless principle: Good women we always loved.
Christianity elevated women.
The Christianity radically transformed the fate of women. Even ancient Roman pagan scholars agree that it was a turning point for dignity of women.
Wherever Christianity has been introduced, it has lifted up women, not just in antiquity but even in modern times.
Small example: Sex-selection infanticide was common in 1880 in pagan China before the influence
of Christian missionaries. Girl babies were disposed of as a liability.
In the last centuries, because of Christian influences, the treatment of women worldwide has improved immensely. It was the influence of Christians.
Or in India, the practice of suttee was ended by the influence of Christianity. A good Hindu wife was expected to follow her husband in death on the funeral pyre,
even if she was young with her whole life ahead of her.
Christianity is not anti-woman. Christians love women.
Small example of the Bible:
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church..." (Eph 5,24-25)
"husbands should live with your wives in understanding, showing honor to the weaker female sex..." (1Pe 3,7).
Yes. Men should love women. And also men should showing honor to the female sex.
One man writes:
A woman should be obedient to man, in everything. Yes. But man should love and worship a woman.
Women are divine, women are life, women are truly jewels.
Man should make love to his own woman.
Always have intercourse with a woman and meditate.
He must fondling her with attention.
Constantly kissing her and caressing her, worshipping her. Woman must be physically worshipped. And woman must be worshipped verbally and mentally.
Man must have a sacred respect for female body. My view: When woman is naked, man should kneeled in front of Her, at least for a while. Women are heaven...
- Nice words... :-)
One man writes:
Women are created to receive love and worship from men.
I feel like every woman is a queen, and we should be treated as such.
- I agree
Men think that now they have to do body worship of women.
It is important to understand that women worship can even bring you harm, because when you worship a person, when you give yourself to them in this way, you can receive the spirit of the person.
If this spirit is not of god, it can be the worldly spirit,
or even demonic spirit,
and then you can receive lower
spirits or even demons from such a person. This is very dangerous, you can lose your soul and end up in hell if you die suddenly, because the grace of god can leave you.
Please do not worship the bodies of any woman, only the bodies of those who
are truly good and holy!
Respect beautiful womens bodies, as they are a symbol Beauty of God (God created beauty) but worship is a whole not her thing.
Worship only good women.
- Yes, it is true. Very rightly warning. Exist many evil women and demonic women.
We worship only good women.
Another post is only short video:
- Yes, very nice... :-)
We will treat women as Goddesses when they act like a Goddess.
Women and men are just the same, it is just that their motivations and drives differ.
Many women are selfish and disloyal (just as many men are) and don't deserve to be treated as a Goddess.
But if a woman displays the true strengths of femininity. If she can display kindness, compassion and respect to others while standing up for her interests of her and her people,
then she may deserve to be treated like a Goddess.